SEXUAL ORIENTATION TEST

After a long process of reworking, October 4, 2012, Gay Project has opened a new site

http://progettogaytest.altervista.org/tn2_english 

dedicated exclusively to three separate services: 

1) Online Interviews on gay sexuality 
2) Test of sexual orientation 
3) Statistics on gay sexuality 

The service is available both in Italian and in English (the entire site has been translated and published in English version, it is not a web-translation but a site originally in English). 
The interface in Italian is: http://progettogaytest.altervista.org/tn2_italiano 
The interface is in English:http://progettogaytest.altervista.org/tn2_english 

The archive is unified. As for the interviews, on the same DB are then stored interviews both in Italian and in English. These interviews can be easily selected through the search function. The DB of tests of sexual orientation is encoded. Each card is compiled in Italian or in English, is encoded and can be read (decoded) in both Italian and English, regardless of the language in which it was compiled. The service has been greatly improved, there is now the option to see the preview of the analysis in order to change the answers before final posting, and have also been improved techniques for avoiding repeated posting. The test has been created with very serious scientific criteria explained in the methodology page, shown in the page that contains the response processed by the system. Below you can read an example of test with its response card.

ANALYSIS OF THE TEST

Form n. 702 

1) Question: My age - Answer: 23 
2) Question: My marital status - Answer: I'm single 
3) Question: Sons - Answer: No children 
4) Question: Family pressures - Answer: My family expects me to be straight 
5) Question: Social expectations - Answer: The social context in which I live has virtually no weight on emotional/sexual choices 
6) Question: Why are you doing this test? - Answer: I do the test because I have some doubts about my sexual orientation 
7) Question: Anxiety and sexual orientation - Answer: At the beginning I lived with anxiety the issues related to my sexual orientation but It doesn't happen anymore 
8) Question: Have you done before other tests concerning sexual orientation? - Answer: I've done other tests on sexual orientation and I was not satisfied in the sense that I was not given any definite answer 
9) Question: Have you read books or specific articles on sexology or sexual psychology? - Answer: I'd like to read specific books or articles on sexology or sexual psychology but I really don't have time 
10) Question: Have you ever consulted a psychologist for reasons related to sexuality? - Answer: I have never consulted a psychologist for reasons related to sexuality
11) Question: Have you ever consulted a psychologist for reasons other than sexuality? - Answer: I have never consulted a psychologist for reasons other than sexuality 
12) Question: How do you perceive your sexual orientation - Answer: At the beginning I also had a straight period but now I feel much gay 
13) Question: Openly/Hidden - Answer: I'm gay but I act straight with my family 
14) Question: How other consider you in relation to the sexual orientation - Answer: I think my sexual orientation doesn't interest anyone 
15) Question: Affective orientation perceived - Answer: At first I fell in love with girls but now I tend to fall in love just with guys 
16) Question: Couple's sexuality - Answer: I've only had sex with guys 
17) Question: My ideal couple's sexuality - Answer: The ideal for me would be a stable couple declared only to family and close friends 18) Question: My possible project of couple's sexuality - Answer: I think for me it is possible to achieve a stable couple declared only to family and close friends 
19) Question: Orientation of masturbation - Answer: At the beginning I masturbated with straight fantasies but now I only do it with gay fantasies
20) Question: Variability of masturbatory fantasies - Answer: My masturbatory fantasies are highly variable 
21) Question: Use of pornography - Answer: The gay pornography for me is a kind of obsession, practically all my time on the internet is dedicated to gay porn sites and I cannot help it 
22) Question: Why I use pornography - Answer: Concrete occasions of sexual involvement in every's life are few and pornography helps to live at least a virtual sexuality 
23) Question: How often do you masturbate using pornography? - Answer: I never masturbate using pornography 
24) Question: Have you ever gone on a pay porn site? - Answer: I've never been on a pay porn site 
25) Question: How many porn sites do you visit regularly? - Answer: Usually I visit from 6 to 10 porn sites 
26) Question: Sexual interest polarization - Answer: My sexual fantasies focus on a single person who has strong emotional meaning for me 
27) Question: Frequency of masturbation and emotional state - Answer: The frequency of my masturbation is practically constant 28) Question: What I think about masturbation - Answer: I consider masturbation something completely natural 
29) Question: Masturbation and affection - Answer: I consider masturbation and emotions are closely linked and when you fall in love you live in a different way 
30) Question: How do I consider sexuality lived as a couple - Answer: I think that the couple's sexuality is a manner to express love 
31) Question: Attraction to the nakedness - Answer: I watched the nakedness of other unaware guys 
32) Question: Causing sexually embarrassing situations - Answer: I've never done in a way that neither boys nor girls find themselves in sexually embarrassing situations 
33) Question: Reactions in situations of collective non-sexual nakedness (locker rooms) - Answer: I'm comfortable in situations of collective non-sexual nakedness (locker rooms), I'm used to and I'm not any more effect 
34) Question: Heavy sex jokes made in group to other guys (e.g. forced stripping) - Answer: I never happened to be present at a heavy sex joke made in group to another guy (e.g. forced stripping) 
35) Question: Do you talk about your sexuality with your friends? - Answer: With my friends I try to avoid the subject and I don't say to be gay but not even to be straight 
36) Question: Do you go to sex chats? - Answer: I never go to sex chats 
37) Question: Do you go to dating sites? - Answer: I never go to dating sites 
38) Question: Have you ever been in a place openly gay? - Answer: I've never been in a place openly gay 
39) Question: Straight falling in love and masturbation - Answer: I've never been in love with a girl 
40) Question: Gay falling in love and masturbation - Answer: When I fall in love with a guy I masturbate thinking quietly about him 
41) Question: Falling in love, sex chat and dating sites - Answer: When I fall in love I don't go to sex chats and dating sites 
42) Question: Falling in love and pornography - Answer: When I fall in love easily go on watching porn sites to masturbate 
43) Question: Your first memories of episodes that had some sexual coloring for you - Answer: The first memories I have of episodes that had some sexual coloring, for me, are not pretty
44) Question: The first episodes of your life that had some sexual coloring - Answer: The first episodes of my life that had had some sexual coloring concerned guys older than me 
45) Question: The first episodes of your life that had any sexual coloring - Answer: The first episodes of my life that had any sexual coloring were homosexual 
46) Question: At what age did you discover masturbation? - Answer: 9 
47) Question: How did you discover masturbation? - Answer: I discovered masturbation alone
48) Question: How did you react to the discovery of masturbation? Answer: - After the discovery of masturbation I had no problem and I lived very quietly from the beginning 
49) Question: The fantasies of your first masturbations - Answer: The fantasies of my first masturbations were straight 
50) Question: Whom were your first masturbations dedicated to? - Answer: My first masturbations were always dedicated to guys I had met in real life 
51) Question: After the discovery of masturbation did you talk anyone? - Answer: After the discovery of masturbation I did not talk about to anyone 
52) Question: At what age did you have your first contact with pornography? - Answer: 16 
53) Question: How did you come to pornography? - Answer: I have come to pornography just out of spontaneous curiosity 
54) Question: How did you react to the discovery of pornography? Answer: - After the discovery of pornography I had no problem at all and I used it very quietly from the beginning 
55) Question: Have you ever told anyone that you were using pornography? - Answer: I told my parents that I was using pornography 
56) Question: At what age did you first had sexual contact with another person? - Answer: 22 
57) Question: Who was the person with whom you had the first sexual contact? - Answer: The person with whom I had my first sexual contact was a guy older than me 
58) Question: How did you get to have the first sexual contact with another person? - Answer: I got to have my first sexual contact in a situation that was to me a strong sexual interest 
59) Question: Your first sexual contacts were completely episodic or were repeated? - Answer: My first sexual contacts for a while have become a habit 
60) Question: Satisfaction of your first sexual contact - Answer: I really liked my first sexual contact 
61) Question: Evolution of masturbatory sexuality - Answer: My masturbatory fantasies tend to become progressively more gay 
62) Question: How did you meet your current partner or your last partner? - Answer: I met my current partner (or my last partner) randomly through the internet 
63) Question: How many guys have you had sexual contact with during your life? - Answer: 2 
64) Question: How many girls have you had sexual contact with during your life? - Answer: 0 
65) Question: On average, how long endured your straight relationships? Indicate an average in months - Answer: 0 
66) Question: On average, how long endured your gay relationships? Indicate an average in months - Answer: 3 
67) Question: How did you behave when you weren't engaged? - Answer: When I wasn't engaged I tried to find a guy

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BASIC ANALYSIS OF THE FORM

The first analysis of the form above tends to evaluate the sexual orientation that comes out from the complex of the test. Some answers are neutral, i.e. don't allow any deduction covering sexual orientation, others are more or less significant. The program first evaluates the significance of the answers in terms of identification of sexual orientation and distinguish answers on the basis of the reference context. In the form under analysis have been identified 21 significant responses in terms of sexual orientation, of which 12 relating to sexuality, 5 relating to affectivity and 3concerning the social dimension. The system then determines the "gay individual number" which is a measure of the general significance in the gay sense of the answers. This "gay individual number" can be compared to the "maximum gay number" that is, with the greatest measure of gay trend coming from questions to which the user gave a significant response (not neutral). The "maximum gay number" is variable and depends on the greater or lesser presence of neutral feedback. What is really significant is the percentage of "maximum gay number" totalized by the user, we call it "general gay index", if the general gay index is equal to 100%, the user answered as a 100% gay person, if the percentage is equal to 0%, the user, answered as a 100% straight.   

1) gay general index (IGG) =  89.71

The following table assists in the classification of the sexual orientation in relation to the IGG. As in any schematization of complex phenomena, should not be forgotten that the definitions have a relative value, albeit tentatively useful.

IGG <15	15<=IGG<35	35<=IGG<=65	65<IGG<=85	85<IGG
strictly heterosexual	bisexual hetero-dominated	bisexual strict sense	bisexual gay-dominated	strictly gay

The sexual orientation emerging from the form under examination can be considered  strictly gay.   The IGG is an average index constructed from several indicators. If the values of individual indicators are close to each other that is are poorly dispersed, the various aspects analyzed lead more or less to the same conclusions and the standard deviation is low, if the individual indicators are widely dispersed compared to each other they lead, individually, to different conclusions and even conflicting. To understand this better we can consider for instance an IGG=50 (perfectly bisexual) that comes from 4 indicators: A1=50, A2=50, A3=50, A4=50 in this case all the considered indicators lead to the same value 50 exactly consistent with the IGG. But we can have IGG=50 (perfectly bisexual) that comes from very different situations, for instance, A1=0 (perfectly straight), A2=0 (perfectly straight), A3=100 (perfectly gay), A4=100 (perfectly gay). The 4 parameters are extremely dispersed the standard deviation is maximum and the IGG has non real meaning. The standard deviation is a typical dispersion index and at psychological level is an index of discomfort. In our case, the standard deviation is generally:  

2) standars deviation (SQMG) = 26.34

The following table assists in evaluating the effectiveness of the responses used in the calculation of the IGG. We have to take into account that in a distribution with values from 0 to 100, the SQM maximum is equal to 50. 

SQM<15	15<=SQM<25	25<=SQM<=35	35<SQM<=45	45<SQM
strictly consistent	consistent	fairly consistent	inconsistent	discordant

In the present case it can be concluded that the indicators of sexual orientation expressed in the test result fairly consistent.

An overall representation of the responses to test indicative of sexual orientation can be seen in the following histogram. each column is marked with a number indicating the question to which refers the individual assessment. A hetero orientation to 100% is characterized by bands all zero (percentage gay = 0). A 100% gay orientation is characterized by bands almost all extended up to 100%, not exactly all, why certain questions still leave a margin of uncertainty. In numeric column on the left you can see the percentage of gay orientation emerging from each answer. The red numbers indicate that the corresponding answers are relevant to sexuality, the numbers in blue indicate that the answers are relevant to emotion, the numbers in black indicate that the answers are relevant to socializing.

The band 12, orange color, indicates the perceived sexual orientation
The band 15, blue color, indicates the perceived affective orientation
The band 16, green color, if present, indicates the couple's sexuality
The band 19, red color, indicates l' the orientation of masturnation
The red vertical line indicates the IGG.

Of more immediate intuitive meaning is the following diagram, which graphically represents the average distribution of the individual indices derived from each significant question in a gay scale graduated from 0 (point "E" totally hetero) to 100 (point "G" totally gay ). The abscissa of the vertex of the curve represents the IGG, the more the curve is sharp the smaller is the value of the SQM. It should be noted that high values of SQM produce curves very flat and therefore not very significant in terms of identifying sexual orientation. Very sharp curves i.e. with small SQM are very significant in terms of identifying sexual orientation. To make always possible to the graphical representation, when the SQM is <1, is automatically reset to 1.

The one above is the "graphic of sexual orientation in general." It is a graphical representation using "two-parameters", certainly interesting, but it is not the best graphical representation of sexual orientation. A more detailed description can be obtained in the manner reported onmetodology. As a first step, the questionnaire is divided into three distinct sections (sexual, emotional, social), is determined for each section the mean and the standard deviation, in order to obtain three distinct normal distribution curves, one for each component (sexual, emotional, social). Here below is presented the "graphic of sexual orientation, affective component" similar to the above but constructed considering only the indicators related to the affective life. Even in this case have been employed two parameters (mean value and standard deviation) which we will call respectively Gay Affective Index (IGA) and Standard Deviation Affective (SQMA). The values of these indices show how on average affectivity is oriented and how they are consistent values that lead to the media. In the case in analysis we have:

3) Gay Affective Index (IGA) =  96.00
4) Affective standard deviation (SQMA) = 8.00

Below is presented the "graphic of sexual orientation, sexual component" similar to the above but built only in reference to the indicators related to sexual life. Even in this case have been used two indexes (mean value and standard deviation) which we will call Gay Sexual Index (IGS) and Standard Deviation Sexual (SQMS). The values of these indices show how on average is oriented sexuality and how they are consistent values that lead to the media. In the case in analysis we have: 

5) Gay Sexual Index (IGS) =  88.33 

6) Sexual standard deviation (SQMS) =  27.34

The same can be repeated for the social component. In the case in analysis we have: 

7) Gay Social Index (IGs) =  87.50 

8) Social standard deviation (SQMs) =  39.66

Because of graphical needs the graphic distribution curves have been normalized over the interval [0, 1] then all the areas included under the curves are equivalent to the unit and the scale in the ordinate is a percentage of the maximum, even if the maximum is indicated in each graph in the top left, given the difference in scale in the ordinate between the three graphs, it is not easy to perform a visual comparison. The following chart shows the three previous graphs in the same scale, i.e. as a percentage of the maximum of the maximums of the four functions, making possible thy way to make a direct comparison. The curve black color represents the distribution of sexual orientation overall, the one blue color is related to affectivity, the one orange color is related to sexuality and the one green color to socializing.

For the interpretation of this graph is good to keep in mind that because the gay general index is strongly related to sexuality between the curve of sexual orientation in general and that related to sexuality, usually, there is not a big difference, instead occasionally it happens that the affective curve differs substantially from the general one, this could be due to a separation trend between affectivity and sexuality. Differences even more evident can be observed between the general curve and the one related to socializing. To allow a quantitative comparison we introduce the variable D_S-A = IGS - IGA.

7)   D_S-A =  -7.67

If the index is positive physical sexuality is geared more strongly towards gay than affectivity. In general, a significant difference between affection and sexuality and a D_S-A of absolute value greater than 15 is a sign of discomfort.    To make an overall evaluation, you have below a summary table showing the scoreboards already seen that we report here for convenience.

INDEX	MEAN(IG)	DISPERSION(SQM)
GENERAL	IGG = 89.71	SQMG = 26.34
AFFECRIVE	IGA = 96.00	SQMA = 8.00
SEXUAL	IGS = 88.33	SQMS = 27.34
SOCIALE	IGs = 87.50	SQMs = 39.66

IG <15	15<=IG<35	35<=IG<=65	65<IG<=85	85<IG
strictly heterosexual	bisexual hetero-dominated	bisexual strict sense	bisexual gay-dominated	strictly gay

SQM<15	15<=SQM<25	25<=SQM<=35	35<SQM<=45	45<SQM
strictly consistent	consistent	fairly consistent	inconsistent	discordant

DS-A < -15	-15 <=DS-A < -5	-5 <=DS-A <= 5	5<DS-A <= 15	15 <DS-A
inconsistent	fairly consistent	strictly consistent	fairly consistent	inconsistent

In the present case, by applying the above criteria it results as follows: 

Overall assessment strictly gay. General indicators are fairly consistent. 

Sexuality  strictly gay. Sexual indicators are fairly consistent. 

Affectivity strictly gay. The affective indicators are strictly consistent. 

Sociality strictly gay. The indicators of socialization are strictly consistent. 

Assessments of affectivity and sexuality fairly consistent. 

Determined as above average parameters and also determined the standard deviations of the three components (affective, sexual and social), we can draw a graph of sexual orientation that takes into account the three components, that is, the so-called "additive" graph, a linear combination of the three previous graphs with standard coefficients 0.6 for sexuality, 0.3 for affectivity and 0.1 for socializing. The coefficients are assumed to a first approximation equal to 0.6, 0.3 and 0.1, values chosen on the basis of measurements made on a large sample of questionnaires. The coefficients 0.6, 0.3 and 0.1 are called average coefficients that is, those that best adapt to the average situation of the population. The individual perception of the sexual orientation can also be "different" from the average and may be represented, at a later stage, changing the weight of the components (sexual, affective and social) of the sexual orientation in relation to the assessment of actual sexual, affective or social discomfort. For the moment confine ourselves to the representation of sexual orientation using the average coefficients. The sexual component of the general sexual orientation is represented red color, the one related to affectivity blue color and the one related to sociality in yellow color (green). X-axis we have the gay sexual orientation in % and in ordinate the density of probability.

Particular attention must be devoted to the interpretation of the "additive diagram " above in cases where the affective polarization, i.e. the area of maximum densification of the blue component of the diagram, is significantly distant from the zone of polarization of sexual zone (red). It is a situational of significant discomfort. In these cases the maximum of the curve may depart significantly from the IGG and may also appear a second maximum in the curve. The appearance of a second peak in the additive diagram indicates the separation between sexuality and affectivity.

To the question "How do you perceive your sexual orientation?"; you answered "At the beginning I also had a straight period but now I feel much gay" to this answer is attributed a gay index of 80, from the test results an IGG equal to  89.71 . Your perception of your sexual orientation can be considerd very precise.

At this point the first part of the analysis of the test is ended. The second part, which still has not been implemented and is currently in preparation, will start from the results of the first part and will examine the hardships already assessed in relation to the sexual orientation and the individual conditions of social life

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GAY GUYS IN THE POOL BETWEEN TENDERNESS AND SEXUALITY

Hello Project

I opened by chance "gay project" and I started to read, it’s really amazing for me to find myself at ease here, nothing is too much or too little, there are just the lives of gay guis as they are. I never thought to write to someone to talk about myself so intimately but since there is the anonymity I opened a new email and I am determined. I thought of writing to ask for an opinion, or just to speak about my mind, on an issue that now is buzzing in my head a lot and that is the relationship between sex and affection, that is meaning of the sex when you fall in love with a boy .

I start from the beginning. I am 21 years old, studying at university, I never had a real social life, friends or anything like that, at school I played the play of others, I pretended to be straight, as I think it's almost mandatory to do so, I had my little falling in love with a mate, a straight guy, I've suffered at the beginning, then I accepted everything. At University you can find a lot of hot guys you like but it's like at school, all straight. We study and in practice we have nothing better to do, even during the breaks, when teachers change, I never go out of the classroom and spend my time re-ordering notes. At home, then  fully comedy, I’m only child, shamelessly pampered by my mom and two aunts living  at my home, not by my father who at least doesn’t  asphyxiates me. At home I haven’t  any gay book or gay film. I never speak about girls, this is obvious, but neither about guys, I can speak about my friends only for study and exams. Apparently no one is asking too many questions. I never heard at home the classic question: "Do you have a girlfriend?". In such an environment, guarded in practice on sight and without any kind of occasions, for me, sexuality has always been a problem. I cannot talk to anyone at any level and I have to be careful not to even be in front of my TV when they send some news about gays. They are not homophobic, just believe that gay people live on other planets and that "we, normal people, have nothing to do with those" exact words of my aunt. I discovered masturbation quite late, at 15, because since that time these topics have been regularly set aside as if total ignorance could prevent who knows what. I was so far away from sexual things that when I masturbated for the first time and I got a lot of ejaculation I was worried because I had not really understood what it was and thought there was something wrong and that the white stuff was perhaps due to the fact that I gave off too much and that I had broken something inside, maybe in the kidneys. And then I could not talk to anyone, I was really afraid of being hurt, that I measured the fever many times because I thought something would happen to me but nothing happened. At the time I could not even look at the internet because I did not have a computer of mine and search sex on my father’s computer would sound very strange to me. Then my parents are Catholic and, at least to a certain point, even I’m, and then we went to church on Sunday, mom and aunts were always doing the communion and I was doing as well. In practice at 15 I went to confess every Sunday that I masturbated, I promised myself to stop but then absolutely, I inevitably had to fall back, in practice it was the same story every week. I never told the priest that I was gay because that is not sin, at least I understood it. In essence, a depressing thing, a struggle with myself that was repeated every week. Then when I was 16 my parents gave me my first computer of my own and there I was the mother of invention, I have studied with great care as you put the password so no one could access my computer, I think my father would not have ever done such things for reasons of principle (and I respect him because he respects me) but my mother would put her hands there, and I'm sure she thinks it is the duty of a good mother to meddle in the affairs of the son, but finally, put the password, I could feel comfortable. I could lock myself in my room, but this would not have been tolerated, but I had my computer where no one could be in the way of my business. I rearranged the furniture in my room and put my desk looking toward the door, so no one could enter without me noticing him and I placed the location of my computer so I could have time to change the page if someone had walked into. Internet for me meant especially pornography. At first it was just an obsession, I could not wait, in the evening, to put myself in front of the computer even if I had to wait until all were gone to bed. At first it was really a frenetic hunt for free porn sites, but I was and I'm still very selective, porn, yes, but there must be something sweet, affectionate, otherwise I change. I took a huge collection of photos, not video, looking for my ideal physical model of boy and then I worked on trying to build my fantasy movie with a story of a boy, a kind of tender love story and also sex, all mixed together. All my sexuality was reduced to masturbation and these fantasies, but I liked a lot. I was not frustrated or thinking that I was really missing something, or at least I did not think so until recently.

And here begins the second part of the story. I'm pretty tall and very thin, and after a disturbing flue, the family doctor insisted that I could practice sports. At first I just didn't want to because I had never done such things, even as a child, then my parents insisted and I started to think that in fact it could also have a purpose in a sexual way, so I accepted, three times a week in a swimming pool close to my home (I go there on foot in 20 minutes). I go there in the afternoon at 18.00 in order to have a little free time to devote to other things. The first time I went there to register and pay the fee I was upset: a nice place, very clean and very well equipped, I was put at  the beginners course and I did know the coach, a guy about 25/30 maximum, beautiful, with a beautiful smile and an athletic handshake. However it was a very short conversation. In the afternoon I bought swimsuit, bathrobe, towel and bag, I tried the swimsuit the less compromising and useful to defend more in case of erection and then I got just an erection paranoia: what if it happens to me? And I started going back and forth: I'll go or not go? And then I wondered if the showers had partitions and many other such things, however I decided to go swimming wearing my swimsuit under my trousers to overcome at least the first embarrassed, then, if necessary, I could get away 10 minutes before the others and go in the locker room when no one was there. I was very uncertain, however, my parents had paid money in order to let me practice sports and then I was expected to do so, in short, at 17.45 o'clock, the day after, I made my entrance into the pool, the coach was there, we shook hands with other boys. Guys more or less about my age where many, in all about a dozen on the 15 scheduled. The coach told us to sit on the benches poolside waiting "those" of the previous course to get out of the locker room, a course for girls, so you cannot get in the dressing room until they have finished, the coach told us in a mischievous smile very spontaneous, I could say typically straight, which led me to exclude him from the number of interesting guys. Meanwhile, I eyed three boys pretty good and in particular one of the three who had reacted in an embarrassed way to the coach’s speech. Then after minutes we entered the locker room I took a seat on the bench right next to that guy, I do not know if he realized he was embarrassed but he really was. I had already my swimsuit on and I was pretty quiet, but he put on the swimsuit there, but in a special way. He had a very long shirt (I think he had it chosen for that very reason), first he pulled out the edges of the shirt that practically covered the entire "x area" then he lowered his trousers pulling them from the bottom, without raising flaps of the shirt, then he pulled down pants with a very similar maneuver, and put on the swimsuit and to bring it up took it form over his shirt, in practice it all lasted no more than 10 seconds and, of course, I saw nothing, then he took off his shirt and I've saw him with only the swimsuit on. He was beautiful! A hundred times better than me! In the meantime I had taken off my trousers and shirt and I was in my swimsuit too. I searched his x zone and in practice I didn’t see anything, obviously he was so embarrassed that the situation gave him no sexual reaction, for me it was not exactly like that, but my swimsuit was pretty adequate and contained me fine, however I tried to distract me to lower that principle of erection. During the lesson there were other people, there was the coach and then I got distracted. However, the guy threw furtive glances to me every now and then, and sometimes I even caught him looking at me. In practice, I wondered what he would do at the end of the lesson, if I could see him naked and what should I do with showers. Then the time came. We went into the locker room and he repeated the same maneuver he had done when he put on the swimsuit, exactly on the contrary, in practice it dried his chest, put the "drop down" shirt and then took off the swimsuit, dried himself and put on his briefs, and always under the flap of the shirt, this time everything was very fast and I did not see anything. I put on the robe, dried and got dressed under my bathrobe, but I can say right in the most beautiful moment my bathrobe opened and I saw him throwing the eye over there, suddenly he turned away and apologized. A very unusual thing in a locker room of a swimming pool. I finished in a few seconds to get dressed, red-faced with embarrassment, but I did not want to lose contact with him, even if, instead of seeing him, he had been who had seen me. While he was putting things in the bag I thought to ask him why he apologized but probably it would create embarrassment so I just asked if it was the first time he was in the pool (stupid question), and from there we started talking a little, he was relieved that I had not given weight to the episode of the bathrobe. We went to the bar, had a drink then I asked if he had a car, he said no and I offered to accompany him home because, unusually for my habit of walking, I came by car. I took him home, rather distant, about 20 minutes by car, we spoke only of sport and training, when he left, he greeted me with a nice handshake, very determined. I'll call him Mark, but actually he has an unusual name that inspires me very gently. My parents at home noticed that I got good experience in the pool and they were happy. I know Mark has completely changed my life, not that apparent, of course, but the sexual life. In practice it is almost completely eclipsed the era of pornography and started the era of Mark. I'm in an immense tenderness and this is the point, it is a sexual tenderness, practically all of my sexuality is dedicated only to him and all my mental films have a single protagonist. I love him because it's a good guy, if possible even more clumsy than me, but I also want him sexually, and I'm not ashamed to say so. We were in the early days of embarrassing situations in which I felt guilty because I had not spoken to him so clear, for example, sometimes in the evening I called him on the phone, I told him that I could not say too much because my parents where at home and I did not have the privacy I wanted, but he called me a lot, usually half an hour and more and it was the same for me, and those calls have a strong erotic value even now, when I know he’s going to call me I go to bed and talk on the phone while masturbating under the covers. Of all this I feel a bit guilty, because he doesn’t know, but I would have liked him to do the same. Over time, the pool, things are a little changed, and we became real friends, I used to take him at home and get him back home three times a week and we talked about a lot of thing but never about things related to sex. In the locker room the embarrassment of the first time had slowly passed, he used no more his "drop down" shirt and changed by my side remaining naked for a second, just like I started to do, and he used to give me a look at that time, just as I did with him, it seams too little thing, but I looked at him and he pretended it was nothing. At the end between us it was a kind of sexual contact accepted. I had noticed that, as Americans would say, he is well endowed in that department and I cannot deny that when I think about that my blood is boiling. Then an event occurred that changed things completely. One evening, after I drove him home, we were talking a long time in the car and in practice we have declared each other. Before he made a long preamble that could mean only one thing, then I asked if I could hold his hand and he said yes, it was a close intense moment that never ended, I told him: "Do I embarrass you if I say that I’m sexually aroused?" He said: "It happens to me too." It had been more than five months since our first meeting. Embracing Mark, I can finally kiss him, touch him even intimately knowing that he's fine with that and see that there really is an experience sexuality in unison, with practically identical reactions, I see a guy who "wants" to stay with me, I think we are a couple and  this probably will not collapse, such tings make me feel great. Now we've been together many months and my life changed. My sexuality belongs to Mark. Unfortunately we cannot live our feelings in the light of the sun, but there is nothing I would change on the world for the joy of being near him, because he's a sweet guy, a bit as I think I’m, but he is also much sensual. When we are intimate it seems to me to dream. Unfortunately we attend different studies and probably would have very different tasks, we live our history in secret, and can meet once a week and spend together Saturday afternoon and Sunday in a small house outside of town in the Apennines, the last few months it was bitterly cold and stay embraced under the covers was just something very tender. It's great to live together sex and tenderness. Sometimes I'm afraid it's only a dream and that it could end at any moment, when he’s out traveling by car I make him send me a text message every time he arrives at destination, and I do the same with him. We must save our happiness. That's why I wanted to tell the boys of gay project that sex and tenderness are one thing, and happiness is possible! So brave! An affectionate greeting to you, Project, who put on this project. Of course you can publish my mail. A hug to all my dear.

Michael

GAY PROJECT INTERVIEWS MULTILINGUAL

After a job far from negligible, I finally managed to network the GAY PROJECT INTERVIEWS in a multilingual version.

http://progettogaysito.altervista.org/newint/index.php

You can now browse the full site and read the cards on the basis of the order number and you can do it in all languages, but you can also compile the test in your own language (even other than Italian). What is crucial is that, in any language they are written, the cards will appear in the language chosen by the reader. For example, if a user fill out the questionnaire in American English, a Spanish customer will read it directly translated into Spanish. It is possible to access the interview search table, presented in the customers language. Now all cards are in Italian, the words (or parts of words) to be inserted in the fields to be searched must be in Italian, but if there are many cards in English or in Spanish you could also include in the table search words or parts of words in those languages, but in this case the search would be limited to only English or only Spanish. In this way the online site of the interviews is truly and completely international. Limitations exist only for the inclusion (not for reading) of interviews in languages ​​that do not use the Latin alphabet, this is because the encoding of the DB is unique and is based on the Latin alphabet.

Thank you in advance.

ONLINE INTERVIEWS ON GAY SEXUALITY AND SEXUAL ORIENTATION

SEXUAL ORIENTATION TEST- ONLINE INTERVIEWS ON GAY SEXUALITY - STATISTICS ON GAY SEXUALITY

On this page of "Project Gay"

http://progettogaysito.altervista.org/newint/index.php

you can find three distinct services:


1) The "Interviews online on gay sexuality," structured around 30 questions to which the user can respond in a totally anonymous answers of any length. In order to avoid advertising and spam, the inclusion in the interviews archive available to the public shall be subject to moderation by Gay Project. To avoid duplication of items, the "send" function is disabled for a period of time after the first shipment. The entire site is accessible and operational in many languages, users can read the interviews available in the archive directly in their language, can fill in the questionnaire that will be proposed to them in their language (the only limitation being that it is a language that uses the Latin alphabet as English, French, Spanish, Portuguese, etc..). The search functions are designed to search a data base of cards in Italian and then the research, to involve most of the cards must be based on Italian words or parts of Italian words. If you enter words or parts of words in English, for example, the search would be limited only to fill out cards in English.


2) The "Sexual orientation test online," articulated around 67 choice-questions. The test is completely anonymous. The card, once sent, is immediately inserted in the archive accessible to the public. Again, to avoid duplication of items, the send function is disabled for a period of time after the first shipment. After sending the form, the system processes a personalized answer and presents it in a special page which contains an analysis of the answers given by the user, conduct on the basis of Gay Project experience. The modules containing the answers to the tests are stored and form the basis of the statistical system of Gay Project. Anyone can complete the test, read the custom tab and read the other response cards in the archive in their own language and can also use the search function and read the results in their own language. Currently the system is still under construction and personalized responses are limited to the analysis of sexual orientation only. Gay Project will improve personalized answers gradually widening the analysis to other aspects of the test. The analysis of individual tests will also be accessible only on the basis of the number of the card, allowing users to repeat the test at a later time.


3) The "Gay Project statistics", to allow analysis of the sexual orientation test archive. Statistics can be constructed on the basis of specific requests sent directly online to the system by the user. Obviously, the statistical analysis require a large data base adequately to have a concrete meaning. Statistics can be read in the language chosen by the user.

GAY PROJECT INTERNATIONAL

GAY PROJECT INTERNATIONAL Read and browse Gay Project sites in youR language GAY PROJECT SITES IN YOUR LANGUAGE   GAY PROJECT FORUM GAY PROJECT BLOG GAY STORIES BLOG GAY STORIES AND MORE GAY PROJECT SITE When you open the home page on the right below you can find the “translate” button to translate pages in a lot of languages. GAY PROJECT CHAT Mibbit device allows you to use the online translator to read and write directly in your own language. If your language is not among those specifically listed above, no fear, click on the link to English and then, in the upper part of the page, choose the language in which you want to read the site.

READ GAY PROJECT FORUM IN YOUR OWN LANGUAGE

GAY PROJECT FORUM IN YOUR OWN LANGUAGE Dear friends of Gay Project who reside outside of Italy, Gay Project gives you a new and exciting opportunity, you can now directly read the Gay Project Forum in you own language. Pages will appear automatically translated into your language. In practice it is as if the Forum was fully written in your language. Allowed Languages: Arabic, Bulgarian, Catalan, Czech, simplified Chinese, traditional Conese, Korean, Danish, Hebrew, Estonian, Finnish, French, Japanese, Greek, Haitian, Hindi, Indonesian, English, Italian, Latvian, Lithuanian, Norwegian, Dutch, Polish, Portuguese, Romanian, Russian, Slovak, Slovenian, Spanish, Swedish, Thai, German, Turkish, Ukrainian, Hungarian, Vietnamese. If your language is not included among those linked explicitly below, no fear, click on the link to the Forum in English and then, in the upper part of the page, choose the language in which you want to read the forum.

Dear friends of Gay Project who reside outside of Italy, Gay Project gives you a new and exciting opportunity, you can now directly read the Gay Project Forum in English. Pages will appear automatically translated into English. In practice it is as if the Forum was fully written in English.

Chers amis de Projet Gay qui résidez au dehors de l'Italie, le Projet Gay vous offre une nouvelle et passionnante possibilité, vous pouvez maintenant lire directement le Forum Projet Gay en Français, faisant défiler les pages qui vont apparaître automatiquement traduites en Français. Dans la pratique, c'est comme si le Forum avait été entièrement écrit en Français.

Queridos amigos de Proyecto Gay que residen fuera de Italia, el Proyecto Gay ofrece una oportunidad nueva y excitante, ahora se puede leer directamente el foro del proyecto Gay en Español desplazándose a través de las páginas que aparecerá automáticamente traducido en Español. En la práctica es como si el foro fue escrito totalmente en Español.

Liebe Freunde der Gay Projekt, wenn Sie nicht wissen Italienisch, Gay Projekt bietet eine neue Chance und spannend, können Sie jetzt direkt lesen Sie die Gay Projekt Forum in Deutsch. Die Seiten werden automatisch ins Deutsch übersetzt. In der Praxis ist es, als ob das Forum wurde komplett in Deutsch verfasst.

Queridos Amigos do Projeto Gay que residem fora da Itália, o Projeto Gay oferece novas e excitantes oportunidades, agora você pode ler diretamente o Fórum Projeto Gay em Português percorrendo as páginas que aparecerão automaticamente traduzido em Português. Na prática, é como se o Fórum foi totalmente escrito em Português.

Cari amici di Progetto Gay, è ora possibile leggere l'intero Forum di Progetto Gay in moltissime lingue. Ciascuno potrà navigare tranquillamente tra le pagine che appariranno tutte direttamente nella lingua da lui scelta. In pratica, per l'utente straniero è come se il forum fosse stato scritto tutto nella sua lingua.

ONLINE INTERVIEWS ABOUT GAY SEXUALITY

Dear friends of Gay Project,

we started two years ago an interview online service about gay sexuality and about problems that gay people must face. The service started only in Italian but it wasn’t a really interactive service. Now the online interviews about gay sexuality have been newly structured on a different and very interactive basis.

We start today the online interviews system about gay sexuality in English.

http://progettogaysito.altervista.org/newint/

The Gay Project "Interviews" constitute a unique source of knowledge about the real lives of gay and gay-especially not publicly declared. After two years they have been collected approximately 100 interviews online, Gay project will not only publish these interviews in a readily accessible but also enable the easy way a research topic of the interviews published. For this reason this page was created specialized that lets you:

participate in online interviews, filling out and submitting the form in conditions of complete anonymity,

read the interview published by simply inserting the card number that will be read,

perform searches based on key words in each of the fields which make up the interview form.

The interview consists of 30 open-ended questions to which they may respond by writing a text of unlimited length. Because the form is loaded you must answer all questions. To respond seriously to the questions of the interview should be a time of between 45 and 60 minutes.

To prevent misuse of the site, enter interviews will be published only after being seen by a moderator.

We reproduce below the first online interview on gay sexuality, dating back to 11 / 04/2009.

1) My age
27 years old but I do not think

2) My sexual orientation and its evolution
Until a year ago I felt 100% straight, I never even had sex with girls and I have never been in love with a girl

3) When and how I knew to be gay
I understand being gay only to 26 years, when I'm in love with a friend of mine

4) When and how I agreed to be gay
At first I did not accept at all the idea of ​​being gay, especially in sex, and the boy walked away, but then I was missing too and I could not stay away from him

5) The difficulties I encountered in the acceptance of my gay identity
Having been in circulation always straight, at first, falling in love with a boy it seemed something unnatural

6) The hardships that I faced and I face as gay
Until now, the only difficult situations are derived from the fact that I thought my boyfriend was straight and he believed me, but have only been problems between us

7) Who knows about me
Only my boyfriend knows me, no other

8) The relationship with my parents
The relationship with my parents is good, but their gay side of me they know nothing

9) My relationship with my friends
In practice, they began to work in another city, I lost friends that I had, but know nothing about me, when I thought these guys straight, now, seeing as gay do not know how they would react

10) Where are my knowledge of reality gay
My knowledge of the gay world are especially Draft Gay seems to me that something very serious

11) My relationship with my nakedness and others
Until about two years ago I had absolutely no problems with my nakedness and that of others, doing sport and these things I was used to no effect and I did because I felt those things straight and had no sexual significance for me. Today I think I would feel embarrassed

12) My relationship with masturbation
First, until two years ago, all my fantasies were for girls, masturbation was not exciting but when I started thinking about my boyfriend to do things to change. Now we do a little 'about sex between us, that is sexual cuddles but when we are alone, masturbation remains a fundamental thing for him and for me, of course we think each other

13) My relationship with pornography
Heterosexual pornography was left totally disgusted and in practice even by the gay, with few exceptions, I like a more realistic story with a little 'about sex that a film centered around sex

14) My relationship with the sites and meetings with the erotic chats
I have never attended neither one nor the other, and I've never had even the slightest curiosity

15) As I have tried to create my own emotions / sexuality
Before I met my boyfriend when I was straight, even thought to be asexual and have never tried to accomplish anything, then, with my boyfriend, he came all by itself and in practice did not have to look for anything

16) My relationship with the girls
I first sexual fantasies about girls, but I think I knew who did it all, now I have nothing against girls but I have no friends, but for the truth even friends

17) My relationship with the kids straight
No particular problem, but I currently have straight friends, old ones do not see them most and where I work now I did not make new friends

18) My relationship with gay guys
I do not know gay guys except my boyfriend

19) What strikes me most in a boy
The smile, willingness to talk to me and shows me the respect that

20) My previous love life
A hetero-only fantasy love life

21) My current emotional situation
In practice, living with my boyfriend but no one knows

22) My emotional satisfaction
I feel as happy as I had never been in my life

23) My degree is sexual satisfaction
Sex with us because we go up some resistance, are especially pampered, but I would say that the satisfaction that I try to be embraced by him is total

24) The weight of the sex in my emotional world
Well, I'd be hypocritical to say that does not count but in practice is a way to have no secrets from each other at any level. We are going step by step, but even so it is a very important thing

25) What I want from my boy
The total loyalty, I always say what they think, without hesitation, but he does it spontaneously

26) What do you think I can give to my boyfriend
I try to be honest with him 100%, I would not do a thing for another because I love him too well

27) My wishes in relation to my love life / sexual
I just wish things never change and that my boy was always in love with me

28) My frustration in relation to my love life / sexual
At the moment I do not feel any sense of frustration, I felt when I thought he was straight and were difficult moments, but not now

29) What I would like to know about the love life / sex other gay guys
I'd like to read this questionnaire written by other boys

30) How much I feel informed about risky sexual behavior
Not much really, but neither I nor my boyfriend have never had sex with other people